I'm a single dad of two girls ages 11 and 7. I'm a widow losing my wife, my girls mom, to cancer just about five years ago.
About three years ago I met the perfect woman... she had two boys and is a school teacher. We hit off in record time and built a seemingly fairytale blended family.
Once she moved in her mask quickly came off and the relationship became textbook narcissistic history... she revealed to be a person cold and without compassion or empathy, and a spiteful and cruel person that despised my girls and I.
My head spun to the lies, the serial cheating and aggression and violence when confronted of her actions... above all her actions also revealed a well hidden ten year opiod addiction that she slid right back into.... without any remorse or attempt to help herself.
I ended the relationship and with help by her family threw her out of my home and life. I've been NC since.
Im now about seven weeks into NC andcdesling head on with my own trauma of a broken childhood that left me severely vulnerable to codependency and accepting emotional abuse. Lisa's writings, videos and meditations are a cornerstone in my working on my healing of trauma bonding and codependency and healing my inner child... thank you Lisa.
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I'm a single dad of two girls
I'm a single dad of two girls ages 11 and 7. I'm a widow losing my wife, my girls mom, to cancer just about five years ago.
About three years ago I met the perfect woman... she had two boys and is a school teacher. We hit off in record time and built a seemingly fairytale blended family.
Once she moved in her mask quickly came off and the relationship became textbook narcissistic history... she revealed to be a person cold and without compassion or empathy, and a spiteful and cruel person that despised my girls and I.
My head spun to the lies, the serial cheating and aggression and violence when confronted of her actions... above all her actions also revealed a well hidden ten year opiod addiction that she slid right back into.... without any remorse or attempt to help herself.
I ended the relationship and with help by her family threw her out of my home and life. I've been NC since.
Im now about seven weeks into NC andcdesling head on with my own trauma of a broken childhood that left me severely vulnerable to codependency and accepting emotional abuse. Lisa's writings, videos and meditations are a cornerstone in my working on my healing of trauma bonding and codependency and healing my inner child... thank you Lisa.