adult child

Over the years the term codependency has taken on many meanings. Originally the term was coined to describe the partners and family members of alcoholics. Counselors noted that family members of the self absorbed alcoholics presented with similar symptoms. Spouses generally catered to the needs of the alcoholic, while ignoring needs of their own. As time has passed the term 'codependency' has truly evolved. We now understand this term in much greater detail, and with these new understandings come much awaited emotional relief.

How dare this father cut his child's hair off--and then publicly shame her on YOUTUBE????

Children are NOT property!

This poor innocent little girl...

My heart beats for you precious Izzy..YOU are NOT forgotten.

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Some of us have been lucky. Our parents were open enough emotionally to allow authentic love to come through their heart chakra's and connect with ours. Some of us have known since the moment of our birth, we were wanted, appreciated, and loved.

But what about those of us who felt unwanted?

During my work as a Life Coach for Adult Children of Alcoholics, I have found common traits to be true. The act of having ones childhood pain ignored, denied or treated with indifference by ones parents, but especially by ones mother has a devastating impact on how one sees Self as an adult.

What many people do not realize is that when you are emotionally abused as a child, patterns of relating to others--as well as to self are impacted in negative ways.

If you were emotionally abused as a child and treated with indifference, then you have been programmed to see self as a victim. The psychological term for this is called 'learned helplessness.'

Unfortunately those of us who were abused, tend to attract narcissistic type personalities.

Dear One,

The MP3 is now available that tells you exactly HOW TO HEAL your codependent patterns.

If you are the adult child of an alcoholic, codependent or love addict, and you want to change the patterns that are destroying your chances of being happy in this life experience, then this audio is for you.

If you are an Adult Child of an Alcoholic-you know how painful breaking the cycles of dysfunction can be. You know the guilt that comes when we see, feel and hear ourselves making the same mistakes in our lives, as our parents did in theirs.

Taking part in this upcoming Tele Class will not be like an Al Anon or a CODA meeting.

You will be coached by Lisa A. Romano for ten full hours and learn how to specifically confront and change your subconscious programming.